Get out of addiction

 

 

In our world today we got all kind of addiction, be honest with you if not Tabaco or Alcohol there’s many other we can say.

So first is to be compassionate with our self because addiction come with emotions and yes it’s possible to get rib off it but first is to analyse when that come from.

 

What have make us fall in that can be love, pain anything .

 

What we have to know that when we have analyse that we have to understand how this addiction is working, then because addiction is also habit we need to work out to change this habit for a new one.  And that a work of everyday working on why we decide to take for that instead of taking care of our health.

When we know that it’s important to train our mind out of the addiction and working with that slowly the habit will change and the addiction also will transmute to something else.

 

But careful soon we let go sometimes we will sometimes come back again so until that addiction is out we need work every day with it without let go or without giving up.

Happy Losar 2014

Happy new year all may the Horse year be good with everybody may everybody have better life and love and health. 

You attract the person you are

How we portray ourselves is the reaction we will receive back from others. Change yourself and change the world around you. ~Tsem Rinpoche


When we come to talk about all kind of relationship, sometimes we ask ourself on why I only meet this kind of person always.


If we like to have try just look at your surrounding friends, partner and them look at yourself on what is the dominant emotion and you will start to notice that friend or partner have strangely the same emotion that you have .


That is just the start usually when we take a couple for example, a couple we not just share the same view but the same kind of emotion.


Them we can ask what's happening when we change, same things if you start to be in change of life, emotion more accepting yourself for some point, you will have immediate connection with friends or new friends who are the same looking for the same things.


So now how this happened, let's say past life karma is our experience of now, but is mix also with our instant karma when they both meet sometimes that can give something that I can call funny.


The day you deicide to change all your life over get ready to have not just change in you but also change outside.



In the end as say Tsem Tulku Rinpoche change ourself, change our world the first day we start to change everything change and we make it happened everyday in good or bad choices.

Twin sisters thankfulness and kindness

In our world today be real when we look just on media or even on or neighbour, we live in pretty negative world, we are mean to each others, we are cynical, we critical and complaining all time.


Be honest like say Shamarpa a negative mind never bring to enlightenment, so why are we so mean maybe that because we cultivate jealousy instead to cultivate thankfulness .


Soon someone start to came out of the blue we become jealous because on some way that proof us, we can do the same but we are not so brave so first taught is let destroy that person .




How we can feel so great by beings kind and thankful, that a work of first stop our negative self talk , even if you have a bad day don't worry there's always something good.




That up to us to open our eyes and see it, even the worst karma have always something good inside.



Be thankful and kind and you will see yourself and the world change.

Buddhism Gossip

Tonight a short blog, we buddhist think we are perfect or not : whatever like every human we like to speak on back and talk gossip about this and that .


We are not perfect and some look other higher but when there's accentually no level, tell me how you measure something beyond measure .




We talk about the school of hard-knock learn to become kind and respect others views is the subject number one.





Anyway may the dharma increase

Walking like a Tiger or following the Sheep

Tonight after have been watching 12 years of slave and Brad Pit at one point say that my “Duty” this text arise to my mind.


So we all have duty to our family and friends but sadly we clearly forgive our duty we have for others and turn selfish.


A spiritual path whatever we take is warrior path, we fake to be kind and have big pride say we are not able of and one again that big ego pride.


Who's kind is able to suffer for the benefit of other not just for his/her own benefit, we strive to get the last mobile phone but turn off when is taking time to help homeless on street.


We are afraid to look bad on this on that in front of friends, talk about friend one friend of my have show me

a great example of generosity as he work in station, he use to have some food and first things he do was to give to homeless.


When we look to Edinburgh or others town like Paris, LA whatever tell me if in our great cities there's no homeless and in front of that, there us eating our sandwich as this our right.


We don't forget our right but easily forget our duty in our society and we find excuse to follow the troupes into the matrix.



So the idea of compassion can easily fly away kindness is nor emotional nor sentimental kindness is kind and fully active.

Live for love

Army of love defeat all hatred




Tonight I was first wanted to write about the decision I have take what this have put me a bit in the 8 miles.
With bag of cloth and all shrine stock in my car, but since I enter the promissory room and I have to deal with lot of things.


So tonight I was cruelly starving and my land lord had say some wise word like time for you to go forward in life you got nice projects work toward this.


Tonight I was outside decide to break all habit I have been first to one pub I use to go and strangely the music Depeche Mode was on and my first taught was “ironic”.
Because my ex had cheat on me for going with a guy fan of Depeche mode, so I have decide to move out this not feeling friendly in that pub I moved.


And as I was passing by this other pub since I'm here I have never put a feet inside, I have start to say to myself yeah let's try anyway.
I enter and first discover a nice group live playing was really great, second even if they was not a lot of people was really good mood.
After that I have decide to have a walk and I have put my music on, I know right now my budget is really short, so I cannot do lot of things my next bursary will be on the 17 so I have deal with what I have.


Putting the music on I was praying and this taught come to my mind like bullet, for what do you live and I start to listen that music I love at the moment give me lot of inspiration and at one point on this music the singer say I want to live for love.
And strangely that time this have touch me deep, I had always live for love, love to give to another, love for all beings, love to let go my ex partner on her path, love was my answers and tonight all personal teaching of Garchen rinpoche start to make even more sense.


We can say we live for our family and so on that the top of the iceberg at the end we all live for love, even or presence here right now is base on love from our parents, some people go to war for protection other by love, some other destroy each others because they miss love.


Love is the answer of all our questions, but that love is far deep from inside out, that love take all beings without judgement and make them live.

When we ask ourself why we live like this or like that, that for love no more no less this love we must find in deep inside us that one who had no wall that one who not judge, whatever we call it, God, Krishna, Buddha, Shiva whatever that is still love.

Everyday is a new day

Yes we can make our life better that up to us, we must have faith in our decision also we must not allow anything to change that decision when that have been take.


After that we have to act on it, don't look back and walk, we cannot satisfy everybody but when we got to the point of ultimate suffering we have to act on change no matter what.


It may sound harsh but we have to believe in our strength in stead of praying our weakness. Hopefully with a deep faith in ourself and in our path we can move mountain.



May all have great day today .