Love hate ignorance attachment

From the 37 practice of Bodhisattva it's say

[The mind of] attachment to loved ones wavers like water. [The mind of]

hatred of enemies burns like fire. [The mind of] ignorance that forgets what to

adopt and what to discard is greatly obscured. Abandoning one’s fatherland is

the bodhisattvas’ practice.

Garchen Rinpoche explain in our daily life we should not be to attach to loves one for sure we have to take off but we should not be attach to the love one, Rinpoche say also we should avoid hatred for enemy because that hell state of mind and the first feet in hell realms, the both are lead by ignorance what is the main cause of all the suffering in this world.

Garchen rinpoche say also that in all kind of relationship in hard time we should learn to develop the 6 paramitas and not just stay in hatred, knowing that if we look on our daily life as we got all kind of relationship good and bad how do we work ?

The key to cut attachment is unconditional love and lost of expectations sound hard to do but that the only way to find to free ourself from troubles, we have work on that everyday in our life and not delay for x and y reasons we fall again into the samsaric states but like the bodhisattvas practice say we should not stop the examination our mind.

So what's cure for hatred, the cure of hatred is compassion if for x and y reason we will get kill by an enemy we can go under the mountain in deep river but the karma will always follow us so as Garchen rinpoche say if that extreme situation arrive we should not have anger because anger lead us strait a head to the lower realms, in everyday that also mean when someone get angry with you in some way that our karma so let go of our anger and build up the compassion both victim and aggressor have to had compassion .

All our pain come from the deep roots of ignorance and we should be aware of that knowing that and as our precious human life is really important we should lead a meaningful life, because we are delude and think that OK I'm young we try to forget we will are not sure to have another human rebirth so we should work hard and change our view to transform our mind.