Buddhist in love

finally after a weeks of meditation on this post and thinking to the right view to give I finally made this post.

Ok so the tricky questions of relationship and everything go with it, on my personal experience relationship have learned me a lot in all points .

When I see some great masters like the Sakyong Mipham Rinpoche or Trinley Tulku Rinpoche have great relationship that give me hope to yes we can.

But maybe we should think before jump on our future Daka or Dakini, because relationship is hard work and in that with partner we have to learn how to develop the 6 paramitas what is not clearly easy sometimes.

If we look to the masters from the past and now, just have look to Marpa life is relationship was not easy with Dagema, if we look now how many story do you heard about Lamas and there wife a lot.

So relationship start first with ourself like everything we do first we should appreciate our qualities to them see them reflect around us.

Dorzin Rinpoche gave me ones this advices and I keep in my heart all time now, he told me real relationship isn't part of envy or attraction is unconditional love, that the hard part because we all are attract full of envy by this lovely smile of someone whatever it's but at the end when we start a relationship we should think that have to be a win win situation no one have to lose something.

So unconditional love is something we learn to develop each day even more, we have to work both on ourself and be the best for others.

But sometimes relation fade away and sometime whatever good things we can put in if that have to be finish we have also to know how to let go.

Relationship are work of everyday, to find the our Daka/Dakini we have to find ourself, Daren Hardy say that you want to find the perfect relationship find what you like them find what's matching and what's not matching, them work on the qualities you can develop then you find the right person.

To find ourself and our perfect mirror sometimes is work of everyday but for some prefer walk alone some prefer be in yab yum, in my personal choice I prefer to live with a Dakini even if sometime it's hell because we have to deal with our own interior and exterior conflict at the end we can learn a lot in that.

We must develop always unconditional love toward all beings