Wednesday 24 April 2013

The person you remember isn't the person of now






When we remembering a relationship good or bad, we have this tendency to imagine that the person have never change, what's kind of delusional state of mind is kind of dangerous in long term because we change all time.

This kind of sign it's the sign that we don't live in present moment but in past, what will not help us for build the relation for example we are now.

Part of our subconscious mind is working like that generally when we got all kind of trauma and the most important is how we can fix that.

There's many way to fix that, we fix by simply staying in present time but that a work of everyday because emotion and focus working together each time you will get focus in past, each time you will have the same emotion and feeling coming back.


Imagine this you have live the 9/11, you have see how peoples have suffer and so on, you have maybe lost someone, each time you bring that back by one way or another, you will have the same feeling and same pain.


Also do you have see how music can bring a past emotion back, when you want to change on one way it's not good to just delete the event or the person, because the will put the biggest imprint into you mind forever and without thinking to the even your mind will always remind that by one way or another.

So what the best way to heal from the past :

1 Stay in present time

2 Forgiveness

3 Let go

that the three step to follow, for some of us came be easier for others not that reason, we need to work on our mind everyday.

So the person you talk from the past and from the souvenir you got isn't any more everybody and everything change day after day, this person you maybe got a fixation now is somebody else and you should remind yourself how this delusion will hurt you on some way when, you will face the person of now.  

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